Bandhavgarh National Park

An overdose of travel to several European and American cities in 2007, made us think of going on a different kind of a holiday than the usual. The search for that perfect holiday finally led us to deciding upon going to a Tiger Reserve. We finally selected Bandhavgarh National Park in Madhya Pradesh as the destination – for several reasons: one - the density of the tiger population at Bandhavgarh is one of the highest known in India, and two – it required the least travel by road and is well connected by the rail network.

Bandhavgarh National Park consists of a core area of 105 sq km and a buffer area of approximately 400 sq km of topography varies between steep ridges, undulating, forest and open meadows. Bandhavgarh National Park is known for the Royal Bengal Tigers. Bandhavgarh National Park was the former hunting preserve of the Maharaja of Rewa and at present is a famous natural hub for White Tigers. The terrain is broken, with rocky hill ranges, running roughly east west, interspersed with grassy swamps and forested valleys.

We took the safaris on all the days – both morning and evening (it was strange to get up at 5 am on a holiday – but lot of fun- especially with the packed breakfast and tea that our hotel used to pack for us). We did manage to see the TIGERS and also some other animals - elephants, deers, wild boars, sambars, jackals and several exotic birds. It was a different experience- waiting in the jeeps trying to listen to alarm calls of animals like monkeys and barking deer and then a wild goose chase across the jungle looking for the TIGER!!! The most beautiful sight of all was a four year old baby elephant trying to play with his 80 year old grandmother -ignoring his mother completely. But, his mother was keeping an eye on him and the moment he started playing with us – she made such noises that he ran away (dum daba ke!!!).

A must not miss on the trip to Bandhavgarh is the Bandhavgarh Fort. As this path is frequented by tigers, it is full of very clear tiger pug marks. The view, from the Fort, of the surrounding area of Bandhavgarh National Park is breathtakingly beautiful (and will probably compensate for not being able to see the tiger during the safari). There is an old temple where a pujari still lives and there are the ruins of the royal treasury, a school and the palace of the royal family.

Donate..but what?

This post has nothing to do with travel or animals or books....but its something very close to my heart, so I thought of using this platform to share it with all of you.

Organ shortages are a global problem, but Asia lags behind much of the rest of the world. The organ donation rate from dead bodies in India is estimated to be a minuscule 0.05 per million people (although India has among the world's highest number of deaths from road accidents). Hong Kong's organ donation rate is less than 5 per million, while it's 25 per million in the United States.

It is estimated that every year 3 million people in India suffer from End Stage Renal disease; only 2,500 are lucky to receive a transplant. The dearth in supply of organs can be matched with the demand, if cadaver organ donation is encouraged and supported by the government and promoted by the medical fraternity. So far, Cadaver Organ Donations accounts for only 0.25 percent of transplants done every year.

Most people in India are not aware that they can donate their organs and can ensure that several people can live a healthy and happy life because of this donation of theirs. It does not cost anything and it is the best donation anyone can make. Most Hindus spent their life going to temples to make sure that they have a good life after death. What they don’t know is that they can make sure that lives of several others can be made wonderful if they decide to donate their organs after death. If there is a God, then I am sure he will ensure that people who donate organs have “good life after death” in heaven J.

As a child, I was always keen to donate my eyes after death. Over the years I have realized that its not only the eyes that matter, all organs if donated can save lives and bring happiness to so may people – its the best donation one can ever make. Who knows, the person who gets life because of you may fulfill all your dreams that you yourself could not!

All you need to do this is to talk to your next kin and family and fill up the donation card (available in most hospitals) and carry it with you always. It is also beneficial to put your wish of organ donation in word and sign and get it counter signed by two witnesses.

Make sure that you family supports you in this as they are the ones who will execute this for you. Give your family a reason to smile even when you are gone – by knowing that you are there somewhere in this world thinking about them.

Its that time of the year!!!

This post is not about a weekend get away or a longer holiday (Well, I could have written about my recent visit to Jammu city – but since it was an official trip, ‘professionalism’ demands that I do not write about it on my ‘personal’ blog!!). This post revolves around a recent ‘trip’ to Delhi (from Gurgaon) for a wedding of a friend. The ‘trip’ took some 3 hours each side to cover a distance of 60 kms!!!!!! The news is that some 22000 people in Delhi decided to get married on the same day and around the same time . Thank God that there were 4 of us in the car (and I must mention here that the friend driving the car was very patient and saved us from becoming patients of impatience). What is interesting is the fun we had during the JOURNEY – the discussions varied from recession to shopping/travel, equality vs. equal opportunity, traffic on Delhi roads specially during ‘wedding season’ and the possible solutions to reduce it. We thought of some innovative solutions (though we also concluded that probably China has already used some of them – to control population!!) for this:
1. Welcome back the Quota System: Every year, the local administration should release a quote for number of marriages that can take place on a particular day and those desiring to get married should register with the administration. Yes, there will be administrative issues and corruption and touts that will emerge because of this- but then we as Indians are used to all this- right??!
2. Time of Day Charges: Separate quota and charges of marriages during different times – peak and off peak – attached with it could be special discounts for off peak weddings……ye ye ye!!!
3. Postpone the hungama: The wedding ceremony becomes a private family affair and the big blast celebrations come later (during the off peak season)

So, which of the above you think will work in saaddi dilli???
Before I forget, almost all the cars on the road had decked up people and even brides and grooms waiting in the traffic!!

Coming back to the wedding, we finally reached the venue and it was beautiful – the groom also got caught in the traffic so we did manage to see the jai mala ceremony. Wishing the lovely newly weds a beautiful life together (this post is especially for them!).

Jaipur.....The Pink City

Jaipur – The Pink City

“Jaipur, the pink city was founded in 1727 by Maharaja Sawai Jai Singh II, a Kachwaha Rajput, who ruled from 1699-1744. Initially his capital was Amber (city), which lies at a distance of 11 km from Jaipur. He felt the need of shifting his capital city with the increase in population and growing scarcity of water. Jaipur is the first planned city of India”. Source: Wikipedia

Another short and sweet trip to a beautiful city close to Delhi helped us polish our bargaining skills after long time (since there are hardly any markets left in Delhi where shokeepers indugle in it!)!! Jaipur is alovely and colorful city- but extremely chaotic in terms of the traffic and parking space. The City palace was nice – organised in different sections – on textile, armory, art gallery etc.

Jantar Mantar was a place we were hoping not to spend too much time – but we ended up enjoying it quite lot! We actually could tell the time in jaipur using the sun clock. It was great to see how advance was astronomy at that time.

Being in Jaipur on a weekend- that too on a valentine Day weekend…ooof……we went for dinner to Chokhi Dhani (http://www.chokhidhani.com) – an ethnic village resort near Jaipur. It was full of people - there was actually queue to enter!!! But a very place and great experience!!

Shopping was a wonderful experience – wat was interetsing that if you are lookingf or something specifc(which we were!!), every shopkeeper will say he has it and would want you to come in and settle and then show you something else…..and then in the end tell you that he does not really have the exact thing – but there is lot more that he can show!

The most exciting part (apart from shopping of course!) was the elephant ride to the Amer Fort - while it was not avery long ride- our elephant (Bobby) took his own sweet time and almost 15 other elephants crossed us by the time we reached the top. Midway, he startedmaking all kinds of noises and we were told that this is bacause he saw his "special friend" coming down and he could recognise her anywhere!

What was disturbing was how our heritage is being misued by govt for making money - most of you woudl have read about the wall collapse at the Amer Fort recently- duirng the shooting of a movie – “Veer”. Well, we saw the abondoned set made in the fort and remains of the wall that fell - its really sad to see how these people get permissions to tamper with historical sites. On top of it, once the wall collapsed, the High Court issues suo moto notice and the shootingw as stopped immediately – but the makers shifted the shooting to the City Palace – in the private portion of the palace.

All and all a wonderful trip!!!

A memorable trip to Amritsar!!!

Amritsar: The Lake of the Holy Nectar

Amritsar is home to the Harmandir Sahib, also known as the Golden Temple, the spiritual and cultural center of the Sikh religion. Amritsar is considered important and holy by hindus as well, as according to the greatest epic of Hinduism, this was a place where Sita, the wife of Lord Rama, gave birth to twins Lava and Kusha. The birth took place in the ashram of Valmiki rishi. Beside this Durgaina temple is also a very famous hindu temple. Amritsar is also known for the incidents of Jallianwala Bagh Massacre in 1919 under British Rule.

A short stint in UK with base in London has made me an expert on how to plan weekend trips and try and make maximum of the time one gets to see, absorb, shop and……(let others) EAT!!! I have been to Amritsar twice before the most recent visit – and on both these occasions I could only see the Golden temple, Jallianwala Bagh and Wagah Border – but only two of these in one trip,….….However, this time in the same time – we managed to cover all these three these places and one temple and SHOPPING and EATING at the most known restaurants of Amritsar!!! So all those who want to pack a lot in a weekend trip – now you know who to take travel advice from!!!:-)

The experience of watching the sunrise at the Golden Temple is not be missed – it’s so serene and beautiful that it makes you forget everything else. Though, the “weekend traffic” is something that can be avoided if you can take a mid-week break. The Jallianwala Bagh makes me wonder why we are not interested in taking care of our history and heritage – on one hand we boast of having a rich culture and history…...and on the other hand we let places like this be just another “park” – it’s very disappointing. Our politicians and administrative officers are perpetually on “foreign trips” to see and understand how things happen and work there- but somehow nothing gets implemented in our country.

The evening programme at Wagah Border looks like a Bollywood movie being shot – you have to see it to believe it! People on both sides of the border take their places much before the flag ceremony starts – there is loud patriotic music being played at both sides and slogans being shouted…the soldiers exuberating ‘josh’ on both sides – its fun and a must watch one time.

Shopping is great in Amritsar: amazing papads and lovely phulkari work on cloth!! Not be missed is the lovely amritsari food that we savored at all the recommended places – breakfast of poori cholle with lassi at Kanha Seets (Lawrence Road); lunch at Bharavan Da Dhaba – awesome vegetarian food at both places!

All in all – it was a great trip – 2 days spent in the company of a lovely people (including my dear husband :-)), great food, lovely places to see and shopppppiiiiinggggg!!!

Chasing daylight......The book that changed the way I look at life

This is not a review of the book as you can easily find hundreds of those on the internet - this is brief description of what I think about the book and the changes it brought in me.

I picked the book - "Chasing daylight- How my forthcoming death changed my life" from the book store I visit regularly without having read any reviews about it - and am I not glad that I got it. It is a wonderful book that has had a lasting impact on me, the way I look at life and my relationships. This book has been my favourite gift to people I love for the last two years :-). I read the book when I was realising the various sensitivies of different relationships and how relationships change with passage of time and changes in circumstances - which is probably why it made such a strong impressionon me. The most beautiful part of the book is towards the end - the way Kelly goes about unwinding each of his relationships.

There are several take aways of the book - but my take away was one - life is uncertain - you may not get another chance to tell your loved ones that they are special- so do it now :-)

‘It is our moral duty not to live upon our fellow animals’ - Mahatma Gandhi.

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